For those who have always wanted to steal someone’s wife, this piece will interest you. However, if the act is like a hobby to you, you can go to this country, stealing wives is completely legal there.
In the Wodaabe tribe of Niger in West Africa, men are known to steal each other’s wives. The Wodaabe’s first marriage is arranged by their parents in infancy and must be between cousins of the same lineage.
However, at the yearly Gerewol Festival, Wodaabe men wear elaborate makeup and costumes and dance to impress the women and hopefully steal a new wife. If a man is able to steal away undetected (especially from a current husband who may not want to part with his wife), then they become socially recognized.
In Niger, West Africa, there exist a tribe called the Wodaabe tribe where men are allowed to steal each others wife. The men of this tribe are so proud and vain that they believe that they are the most handsome in the world.
These men go around with mirrors at every point in time. In the tribe, marriage is always contracted in infancy, and the women can have as many sexual partners as they desire before marriage.
The tribe holds an annual festival called the Gerewol during which men dress elaborately, wear make-up and hold a beauty pageant of some sort. During the festival, men dress to impress the wives of other men. The culture believes that beauty can be judged by the whiteness of the eye, the firm straight bridge of the nose, and white teeth.
Therefore, the make-up done is to accentuate these features. Before the festival begins, it takes the men six hours to prepare and get ready so they can dance and show themselves off. They paint their faces with red clay, use eyeliners to make their eyes appear whiter, and wear a shade of lipstick that will make their teeth appear whiter.
They also wear white ostrich feathers in their hair making them appear taller. During the festival, three of the tribe’s most beautiful women are chosen to judge as the men display through a dance, moving in circles.
Other women, already wives of other men, admire the men they most desire to choose as their second husband. If a man successfully steals a wife without being caught, the man automatically becomes her husband and the union is accepted.
The tribe is a polygamous one hence the wife stealing is widely accepted. In spite of this, some men do not wish their wives to be stolen, and so do not allow them to participate in the festival.
