A first date is a type of initial meeting between two individuals, whether or not previously acquainted, where an effort is made to ask about each other and know if they can be in a relationship, plan, and organize some sort of romantic activity together.
There are many possible outcomes on the conclusion of a first date. The two individuals may agree to a second date. One or both parties may decide that there were compatibility issues and decide not to pursue further dates.
Most people aren’t sure what’s going to happen on a first date, with the aim of finding a romantic or sexual partner for a short period, to finding a long-term spouse.
However, here are the steps to achieve a perfect first date:
Do Pick a Good Location
It’s not too smart to have your first date in anyone’s living room. If they suggest you just “come over,” steer the date somewhere else. Somewhere you can grab a quick drink or coffee is ideal, especially if it’s in walking distance to other fun activities.
Don’t Allow Inappropriate Timing
Don’t agree to meet up after a reasonable hour – 9pm should be your cut off. Try to schedule first dates before the sun goes down. The first date is about getting to know each other. That’s not going to be easy if he’s focused on where you’ll end up after last call.
Do Mind Your Table Manners
This one should go without saying. Don’t chew with your mouth open. Don’t chow down like it’s your last meal. Don’t lick your fingers.
Don’t Reveal Your Insecurities
Don’t try and get reassurance about your outfit, if he likes you, or anything else. If you feel like you could crawl under the table because you’re so nervous, don’t bring it up. Confidence is key.
Do Put Down Your Phone
I used to wait tables in college. Once I watched a woman text through an entire date. After sitting through an hour of uncomfortable silence, the guy told her that she must be too busy to see him again and walked out.
Don’t Mention Your Exes
He does not want to hear the sordid details of your past relationships. Put yourself in his shoes. You probably don’t want to hear the gory details of his last relationship either. So keep quiet about your exes and don’t ask about his.
