Nollywood actor, Uti Nwachukwu has shared his opinion on those who quit their relationships because of a cheating partner.
According to Uti, anyone that quits a relationship because their partner cheated had no business dating in the first place.
In a Twitter thread posted today April 14, the actor said the needless pressure of monogamy has/is still destroying relationships as it is extremely hard for humans to be sexually committed to one human for the rest of their lives.
Uti further opined that most monogamous relationships are pretentious, hypocritical, and sad.
Read what he wrote below;
”We are so obsessed with relationships yet we have refused to accept the inconvenient truths about them. If acute (not chronic) cheating is the reason you leave your relationship, then you have no business being in one in the first place not to talk of marrying!
As long as you have a partner that is kind to u, provides for u, spends adequate time with u/does not Neglect u emotionally&physically- Then what else do u really want?
Truth is, it is EXTREMELY hard for humans to be sexually committed to ONE human for the rest of their Lives!
Let’s be real and think about it. So You are expected to be physically intimate with one person for the rest of your life? (Even if you marry in your 20s?) Lol.
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I feel the needless pressure of monogamy has/is still destroying relationships. NOT TO SAY IT DOESNT WORK O! But most LONG TERM monogamous relationships are pretentious, hypocritical and sad. YET they are the ones quick to judge and pressure others living freely.
This is a real non-judgemental conversation EVERYONE should have with themselves and their intending partners so u don’t lead anyone into depression via deceit.
KNOW URSELF NO BE CUSS. WHO DE CRY DE SEE ROAD.
Whether u are Female or Male, Ur Preferences are Ur Preferences (as long as it’s not an addiction) Let’s not talk about Solomon’s Wives&Concubines cos we know when we add religion, the conversation becomes closed&heated. Just do U and be real with UR expectations”
