A lady should never give a guy the impression that she is an easy lay. The harder you make it seem to get you, the more attractive you will be.
Even if they might not admit it, guys like girls to have an air of mystery around them.
Thus, even if you like a guy, you should not come across as an open book to him, you should not make yourself an easy lay for him. You could charm him while maintaining a kind of enigma about yourself.
Unfortunately, a lot of ladies, knowingly or unknowingly, do things that make them come across as vulnerable, giving guys the impression that they can easily sweep them off their feet with their charm.
Here are 12 things you do that make guys think that you are an easy lay:
1. Smiling all the time
It is good to smile at somebody out of courtesy, but if you smile at a guy every time he walks in front of you, he will think that you are already impressed and have fallen for him. If you want him to work hard towards pleasing you, then you have to stop smiling all the time. You could just greet him and walk off, if not he’ll firmly believe that you will be an easy lay for him and he won’t bother trying to impress you.
2. Initiating a conversation
Whenever you meet him or bump into each other occasionally, let him start the conversation. You might have butterflies in your stomach when you meet him and feel the urge to start the conversation, but refrain from doing so. Join in after he starts the conversation, if you don’t want to create an impression that you’ll be an easy lay for him.
3. Physical contact
If you know someone well enough and are talking to them, you tend to make physical contact with them. You do not feel awkward as you are close to them. But, if you make physical contact with a male friend, it could give him the impression that you are interested in him.
4. Being available
If you turn up at his doorstep after receiving just a phone call from him, you need to change your ways. He should not feel that you are free all the time and you can come all the way to meet him whenever he wants you to. If you are not a busy person, start acting like you are one, and do not meet him on a regular basis.
5. Stealing a glance
Even if you find a guy interesting, you cannot look at him stealthily. If he finds you looking at him, he will think that it will be easy to impress you now that you are already interested in him.
6. Talking about him
When we have a crush on someone, we cannot hold our excitement within ourselves and talk about this to our friends. It would be hard, but you must not talk about your feelings, which you have for a guy, in front of anyone else. If you tell your friends, he will get to know about it sooner or later.
7. Being enthusiastic
You must not turn out to be over-enthusiastic when you meet him. Do not let him know that he is the reason why you are so excited. If you seem highly enthusiastic in front of him, he will know that you are crazy about him.
8. Looking into his eyes
You look into someone’s eyes when you are interested in them. If a guy catches you looking into his eyes, he will get an inkling that you have noticed him and are observing him now.
9. Sharing your phone number
The first thing a guy asks for, after you are done with the introductions, is your number. You should make him work hard to get close to you. Instead of giving him your number, you could suggest another meeting.
10. Suggestive dance
You could accept his proposal of a dance but you must not make any move that could lead him towards believing that you are interested in him.
11. Flirting with him
There is no harm in flirting but you should lure him into flirting with you. Under no circumstance should you go ahead and flirt with him first.
12. Extremely comfortable
Do not make yourself too comfortable around him. If he senses that you are extremely comfortable in his presence, he will try to get closer to you.
