There are some common phrases men say when they know that they have fallen in love with someone, unconditionally and irrevocably.
Men are usually considered the less verbal sex which really isn’t so true.
Women sure do have an arsenal of things to say and gesture to make for both when they are into someone and when they are not, their body language cues and eye rolls could bring a dead man to his feet or a freeze a walking man right at his footstep.
Men are pretty much straight forward with their words but is it really so? Do they only mean what they say or are there much more behind the plain simple words?
Men have much to say but often people miss the signal or are unable to translate it as intended. Here are 8 phrases men say when they are really into you:
1. I noticed you
If he says that he has noticed you eating, wearing, talking to anyone, or any other action…know that he is paying serious attention to you. And not because he wants to be your best friend, but because he is really into you.
2. I can help you with that
Men like to feel important and needed. They are usually helpful and if he is offering you any sort of help, he might be into you.
Men are helpful but they don’t go around offering help to any women, men only do things for women they really care or sometimes for any ‘benefit’. If he is offering you help like he is the most compassionate guy in the world, hey girl, he’s into you.
3. This reminded me of you
Men when into you won’t be too direct, just to avoid their feelings being hurt. So you won’t find one saying he was thinking about you.
When he says that something reminded him of you, well it’s apparent that he was thinking about you and wants you to know, without him truly saying it to you.
4. What are you doing? Where have you been?
Well, if he asks you about your whereabouts, he really likes you! Unless he is not doing it all the time. He doesn’t mean to stalk you or invade your privacy, he is just really into you. He cares for you and often he asks this just to start the conversation with you.
5. You look great
Not to over analyze this one. He likes you and he means it. He really finds you great and that was a sincere compliment, keep it.
Remember he won’t say this to you every day, because he doesn’t want it to be too obvious that he is into you, but every time he says, he means it.
6. I’ll be there for you
This phrase has become cliché but you will know when you hear one. When a man is seriously into you he will say it or something similar like ‘you can talk to me if you want’, ‘happy to listen’, you can share with me’, ‘I’ll be around if you need me’ and so on.
He wants to be a part of your life and won’t let you walk that dark lane alone. He is into you!
7. I miss you
Unless he is very sensitive or romantic, you won’t hear a man saying this. If he says ‘he misses you’ you really have made a home in his heart.
Mind you if he says this to swoon every other girl then chances are he wants ‘something’ from you which is not what we are trying to cover, but if a gentleman confesses you about missing you, he is deeply into you.
8. I am upset/worried
Men don’t really open up about their problems or stress or frustration, in fact, they don’t even really express anything other than happiness or ‘okays’ because they don’t want to show their vulnerability.
If he willingly admits to these emotions, then he trusts you and is into you enough to show his vulnerabilities and insecurities to you.
