5 secrets of women orgasms that men should know

According to studies, the average woman experiences orgasm between 15 and 40 minutes after starting. Moving towards the disappointing part, men are quicker to get done with it than stay for the said time.

But is the duration of the act the only thing that makes women moan and burst into pleasure? Well, here are some more:

1. Stop obsessing over orgasms

Sounds weird, right? But, according to a Swedish brain imaging study, the single most crucial ingredient in inducing an orgasm in a woman is relaxation. Tell her she has the entire night. The more you demonstrate your gratitude for her sexual pleasure, whether expressed in orgasm or not, the easier it will be for her to release.

2. Turn her on

Well, the sex starts long before the clothes come off. Good looks may turn women on but a clean house and good humour can be powerful aphrodisiacs. So, make her laugh, clean that house, play some romantic music, and light that vanilla candle. It does matter!

3. Speak when you’re in the act

Don’t just think of your genitals as a magic wand when your words can throw a charm or two. Women generally feel conscious about how they look sans clothes. If you’re really looking to up your game, tell her you like what you see.

4. Start slow

Brush her breasts tenderly during foreplay; unlike an aroused areola and nipple, these areas are really more sensitive. Slowly intrude closer to her nipples, observing her reaction. A steady increase is something that many ladies enjoy during manual stimulation. While stimulating the clitoris, dive in gradually. Here, slow and steady wins the race!

5. Learn the art of oral sex

You can’t simply make it feel like a fight. Instead, work your way inside with hard, broad tongue strokes, kiss her inner thighs, inner and outer lips first. Keep an eye on her hip movements to determine her preferred rhythm. When you try various methods, pay attention to her gasps and moans. They’ll lead you on to the pleasure city!