A Relationship/ Marriage without trust Is like a soup without Salt, like a smart phone without Sub.
Without Trust a Relationship loses its savor
Doubt and secrecy becomes the order of the day and the strength of the Relationship/Marriage is affected.
Here are 5 things that affect Trust in a Relationship/Marriage..
1) BREAKING YOUR PROMISES
When you keep promising and failing
You make your partner doubt your every word..
And once your words no longer mean anything to your spouse, a lot has gone wrong already.
Don’t make a habit of making promises without thinking.
When you make promises keep them or better still, don’t make promises at all.
2) SECRECY
Pass worded phones
Phone without text messages
Deleted caller/browser history
Revieving calls away from your spouse
Refusing to tell them your whereabouts.
Keeping facts, events and figures from them.
When they keep finding out things you never intended to tell them.
Attempts or appearance of Attempts to hide or conceal things, information from your spouse can damage their trust for you.
3) LIES
When you keep telling them lies, no matter how innocent or harmless your intentions are, it can affect their trust for you.
When you keep lying to your spouse, don’t be surprised the day you will need them to believe you, they won’t, even when you’re telling them the truth.
4) LACK OF COMMUNICATION
The more the communication, the more they know about you.
The more they know about you, the more they can trust you.
That’s why we don’t trust Stangers, because we know little about them.
Want your spouse to trust you?
Talk to them about you and your everything.
5) CHEATING
This is the height of it.
This is the greatest assassin of trust in any Relationship.
Cheat on your spouse once, it will take, in fact they may never be able to trust you completely again.
Do it twice, and…….
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Be Wise
Don’t break Trust.
It’s easier to lose than it is to get back.
And without it, your Relationship and Marriage will be meaningless and full of unnecessary fights..
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